I’d like to let you in to the secret world of “professional ministry”. Want to know the number one question that comes up between pastors? No it’s not, “How has God been faithful to you?” and it’s not even “Are things busy?”
The number one question that comes up in the beginning of most pastoral first meetings is this: “How big is your church?”
Now it doesn’t come up right away but often near the beginning of a first conversation when pastors meet. They ask where the church is located, what denomination, and then eventually try to feel out the size of the church. While it might be unintentional, what is often perceived is that if your church is large, you’re doing well. And if your church isn’t large that maybe you’re not as successful.
But here is the problem with that perspective, and why it matters for you even if you’re not a pastor.
First off, we need to remember that the church belongs to God, and not to a pastor anyway. What this means is that we don’t own what we are called to shepherd and serve. Secondly, size doesn’t mean you are being successful. Being successful means being faithful. And both of these two principles are true in any profession, role, or calling. We do not own what we have been given, and being successful has nothing to do with size, profit margin increase, new promotions, bigger houses, or better parking spaces. Being successful is about being faithful to what God has called you to do.
So if God has called you to be faithful in raising you kids, do it to the best of your ability. Who cares if your neighbours’ kids get better grades. Focus on being faithful. If God has called you to start a business, who cares if your MBA friend has launched one bigger and faster. Focus on being faithful to your calling. And if the pastor down the street has a bigger church, God bless it, because your calling isn’t to be large, it’s to be faithful.
In essence, in God’s Kingdom our callings don’t need to compete. Asking the question who will be the greatest in the kingdom – isn’t a kingdom question. Because in God’s Kingdom our different callings don’t compete with one another, they complement and complete God’s plan.
I learned this from my son. We were racing around the house, and this time I won. He started dancing all around and said “Daddy, Daddy, Daddy, you win…Daddy I win too! You first and I’m first. We’re all first”. This is maybe something Christians, and pastors in particular, should learn. We don’t need to compete, in Christ we’re all first…
3 thoughts on “Competition in the Kingdom ~ Pastor’s, Parking Spaces, and Privilege”
Why is this so very hard to focus on or remember?! It seems like when a area in your life that you are responsible for is not going smoothly, it is so easy to look at someone else and wish for what they have. Such a tough one for me to remember to be faithful in my responsiblites and know God sees the big picture.
Your right it is so often hard to see, but I think it matters. I love the story when Peter asks Jesus, “What about your disciple whom you love what will happen to him?” He in essence turns to Peter and says, don’t worry about him. You follow me and be faithful. I think your right its a reminder I need so often!